How to Support Your Child’s Journey into Medicine
We’ll also explore how Medset’s expert-led Medical School Interview Course and Virtual Work Experience can boost your child’s confidence and success at every stage.
1. Is Medicine Right for Your Child?
Before diving into application timelines or admissions tests, the most important first step is helping your child determine if medicine is the right path for them. Becoming a doctor is more than just a career—it’s a vocation that requires empathy, stamina, strong communication, and the ability to work under pressure. While many young people are drawn to the idea of helping others or fascinated by science, medicine as a profession is demanding and not suited to everyone.
As a parent, your role is not to decide for them, but to guide them in thinking critically about what a future in medicine would involve and whether they are truly ready for the commitment.
Encourage Self-Reflection
Talk with your child about why they want to study medicine. Help them to identify what motivates them and what they hope to achieve from a medical career. Encourage them to consider questions such as:
- What do you find most interesting about medicine?
- Have you explored other healthcare careers?
- How do you cope with stress, difficult emotions, or high workloads?
- Do you enjoy teamwork and communication as much as academic study?
It’s also worth reminding them that there are many roles in healthcare aside from being a doctor. If they are unsure, investigating careers in nursing, physiotherapy, biomedical science, or allied health professions can offer perspective and help them determine if medicine is truly their calling.
Get a Realistic View of Medicine
Popular media can paint an unrealistic picture of medical careers, often glamorising certain aspects while downplaying others. It’s important that students understand what life as a doctor is really like. This means seeing both the rewards—making a difference, using scientific knowledge to help others—and the realities, like long hours, emotional strain, and high expectations.
Encourage them to:
- Speak to family members or friends in the healthcare field
- Read books, blogs, or memoirs written by doctors
- Listen to podcasts about medical careers
- Engage in voluntary or shadowing experiences
One of the most accessible and comprehensive ways to explore this early on is through Medset’s Virtual Work Experience, which allows students to step into realistic clinical scenarios and ethical dilemmas from the comfort of their own home. It’s designed by doctors, reflects real NHS challenges, and is widely accepted by UK medical schools.
What Makes a Good Doctor?
There’s no single formula, but successful medical applicants tend to share some common traits:
- Academic excellence, particularly in science subjects
- Emotional resilience and self-awareness
- Strong communication and interpersonal skills
- Empathy and the ability to build trust
- Teamworking and leadership potential
- Curiosity and a desire to keep learning
Your child doesn’t need to have every trait fully developed at this stage, but they should be working toward demonstrating them through school, extracurricular activities, and personal growth.
How You Can Support Them
- Be open and supportive as they explore their options.
- Help them reflect without pushing them in one direction.
- Talk through their worries or misconceptions about the profession.
- Share your own insights or experiences, even if you’re not from a medical background.
Making the decision to study medicine should come from an honest and informed place. As a parent, you’re in a unique position to support that process—by listening, guiding, and helping them stay grounded in the realities of what lies ahead.
2. Understanding the Pathway Into Medical School
For many families, navigating the different routes into medical school can be one of the most confusing parts of the journey. There is no one-size-fits-all approach—students may enter straight from sixth form, after completing another degree, or via a foundation course designed for widening participation. Each path has unique requirements and timelines, and understanding these options will help your child make an informed, strategic choice.
Undergraduate Medicine (5–6 years): This is the most common and direct route into medicine. Students typically apply during Year 13 (or S6 in Scotland) and begin medical school after completing their A-levels (or equivalent qualifications). Entry into undergraduate medicine is highly competitive and requires top academic performance, particularly in science subjects like Chemistry and Biology. Medical schools may also consider GCSE results and the quality of a candidate’s personal statement and work experience. A strong UCAT score is essential, and some schools may also assess candidates through interviews and academic references.
Graduate Entry Medicine (4 years): This accelerated route is for applicants who already hold a university degree—often in a science-related subject. These courses are condensed and intensive, requiring students to demonstrate maturity, motivation, and academic excellence. Applicants usually need to complete the UCAT or GAMSAT, and some universities may prefer or require healthcare-related experience. Graduate applicants bring a wealth of experience and tend to be more focused and self-directed in their studies.
Foundation Medicine Courses (6–7 years): Also known as Gateway to Medicine or Widening Access Programmes, these courses are designed for students from disadvantaged or underrepresented backgrounds. They include a foundation year that prepares students for the academic rigours of medical school. Entry requirements may be lower than standard programmes but still demand strong commitment and evidence of potential. These programmes are a valuable route for capable students who may not have had the same opportunities to demonstrate academic excellence.
Studying Medicine Abroad: With fierce competition for UK places, some students consider studying medicine in Europe or beyond, often in English-language programmes. This can be a viable option, but it’s essential to research thoroughly. Students should consider the cost of tuition, living expenses, the structure of clinical placements, and whether their degree will be recognised by the GMC upon return to the UK. Language barriers, cultural differences, and homesickness are also important considerations.
Transfer to Medicine: A very limited number of universities allow students to transfer into medicine after completing the first year of a related course, such as Biomedical Science. These opportunities are rare and extremely competitive, often requiring students to achieve top grades and pass additional assessments.
Tips for Parents:
- Help your child weigh up the pros and cons of each route based on their academic strengths, goals, and circumstances.
- Encourage them to start planning early—by Year 11 or Year 12 at the latest—so that they can meet all requirements on time.
- Support them in exploring all the options, attending university open days, or researching courses online.
- If your child is undecided, a well-planned gap year can be beneficial for gaining work experience, improving UCAT scores, and developing confidence.
Choosing the right pathway into medicine is a deeply personal decision. By understanding the different options and helping your child reflect honestly on their goals and readiness, you’ll be empowering them to make the best choice for their future.
3. The Importance of Work Experience
Work experience isn’t just a tick-box requirement—it’s a vital part of the application.
Why Work Experience Matters:
- Demonstrates long-term interest and commitment
- Provides firsthand exposure to healthcare settings
- Builds transferable skills like communication, empathy, and teamwork
- Strengthens personal statements and interview responses
Types of Work Experience:
- Clinical: Shadowing doctors and nurses in hospitals, GP practices, or clinics
- Non-Clinical: Observing administrative roles, working in research or medical education
- Volunteering: Hospices, mental health organisations, community health events, or care homes
How Parents Can Help:
- Encourage your child to contact local healthcare settings directly
- Leverage any personal or professional connections
- Assist with logistics;i.e. transportation or scheduling
- Support them in keeping a daily work experience diary
If in-person placements aren’t available, Medset’s Virtual Work Experience is a convenient and respected alternative. It’s built to reflect real-life NHS scenarios and is accepted by most medical schools.
4. How to Help Them Choose a Medical School
With only four medical school choices allowed on a UCAS application, picking the right ones is crucial—not just for gaining admission, but for ensuring your child thrives both academically and personally over the course of their training. As a parent, your insight and perspective can help guide them through what can feel like an overwhelming decision.
Key Factors to Consider:
Location: Where your child studies will have a major impact on their lifestyle and wellbeing. Some students prefer to stay close to home for added support, while others are eager to live independently in a new city. Consider factors such as travel time, cost of living, access to clinical placement sites, and overall student experience. For example, universities based in large urban centres may offer greater exposure to diverse patient populations, whereas rural campuses might provide more personalised teaching and tight-knit communities.
Teaching Style: Different medical schools use different teaching methods:
- Traditional Courses separate pre-clinical academic learning (typically years 1–2) from clinical placements (years 3–5 or 6). These tend to be more lecture-based, which can appeal to students who prefer structured, theory-first approaches.
- Integrated Courses blend academic and clinical content throughout the programme, introducing patient contact from Year 1. This approach is widely adopted across UK medical schools and is ideal for students who learn best when applying theory in real-world settings.
- Problem-Based Learning (PBL) emphasises student-led, small-group discussions centred on case studies. It suits learners who are self-motivated and enjoy collaborative critical thinking.
Encourage your child to reflect on which environment would help them flourish. Medical school websites often outline their teaching methods, and students can get a feel for the approach during open days.
Admissions Tests: Nearly all UK medical schools now use the UCAT (University Clinical Aptitude Test), although a few international programmes may use different criteria. Understanding how each school uses UCAT scores is essential—some set hard cut-offs, while others use the score as part of a broader review. Encourage your child to review score thresholds from previous cycles to realistically assess their chances.
Reputation and Student Support: League tables can offer a sense of a school’s academic reputation, but they don’t tell the full story. Look for schools that:
- Offer robust pastoral and academic support
- Promote mental health and wellbeing
- Provide career guidance and intercalated degree options
- Have high student satisfaction rates and strong graduate employment outcomes
👉Talk to current students or alumni if possible, and encourage your child to explore forums or social media groups to hear honest feedback.
Making the Most of Open Days:
Attending open days—either virtually or in person—can provide critical insight into each medical school’s culture and teaching style. Help your child prepare by:
- Creating a shortlist of top-choice schools and checking open day dates well in advance
- Touring lecture theatres, libraries, simulation labs, and clinical skills centres
- Attending talks on course structure, admissions, student life, and financial support
- Asking about placement opportunities, such as which hospitals the students rotate through and how early they begin clinical exposure
- Meeting current students and faculty to get a feel for the environment and teaching ethos
👉Take notes and photos during each visit and compare them later in a spreadsheet or decision matrix. Include categories such as entry requirements, UCAT emphasis, teaching approach, location, student feedback, and support services.
Tips for Parents:
- Guide your child in balancing ambition with realism. Consider including a mix of aspirational, solid, and safe choices.
- Remind them to check admissions criteria carefully, especially for international applicants or those with non-traditional qualifications.
- Don’t dismiss the importance of gut instinct—sometimes a school just feels right.
By helping your child choose a medical school that suits their academic strengths, personality, and future ambitions, you’ll be playing a crucial role in setting them up for long-term success. The right environment can make all the difference in their confidence, motivation, and overall experience as a future doctor.
5. Application Process: What You Need to Know
Applying to medical school is a rigorous and competitive process that requires organisation, attention to detail, and strategic planning. As a parent, you can offer vital support by helping your child stay informed, meet deadlines, and understand each component of the application.
UCAS Application: All medical school applications in the UK go through UCAS (the Universities and Colleges Admissions Service). Applications for medicine must be submitted earlier than for most other courses—typically by mid-October of Year 13. Students can choose up to four medical schools and a fifth non-medicine option (often a related science such as Biomedical Science).
The UCAS form includes:
- Personal details and educational background
- A teacher or tutor reference
- Predicted A-level grades
- A 4,000-character personal statement
Personal Statement: This is the applicant’s opportunity to explain why they want to study medicine and what makes them a strong candidate. A compelling personal statement should reflect on relevant experiences (such as work placements or volunteering), demonstrate insight into the realities of the profession, and highlight personal qualities like empathy, resilience, and teamwork.
Common challenges students face include:
- Struggling to convey motivation without sounding clichéd
- Being too descriptive rather than reflective about experiences
- Difficulty in striking the right tone—professional, yet personal
You can help by:
- Encouraging early drafts and offering feedback
- Asking questions that prompt deeper reflection (e.g., “What did you learn from that experience?”)
- Suggesting edits for clarity and flow, while ensuring the final draft remains in your child’s voice
Admissions Tests: UCAT vs. BMAT
Most UK medical schools require the UCAT (University Clinical Aptitude Test), a two-hour computer-based assessment that tests:
- Verbal Reasoning
- Decision Making
- Quantitative Reasoning
- Abstract Reasoning
- Situational Judgement
The UCAT is designed to assess mental agility, problem-solving, and ethical thinking—key skills for future clinicians. Registration typically opens in May, with testing from July to late September.
A small number of universities used to require the BMAT (BioMedical Admissions Test), but it was officially discontinued after 2023. This simplifies the process slightly, with UCAT now the standard requirement for nearly all UK applicants.
How Parents Can Help with Test Preparation:
- Encourage your child to register early and plan their revision schedule around school work
- Explore online resources and practice question banks together
- Support timed practice sessions to simulate exam conditions
- Offer reassurance and stress-management tips as the test approaches
References:
A reference from a teacher, tutor, or school advisor is a mandatory part of the UCAS form. While students don’t write this themselves, they can help ensure it reflects their strengths by:
- Sharing a list of academic achievements and extracurricular activities with their referee
- Keeping teachers informed about university goals and timelines
- Asking politely and early—teachers often have many references to write
Deadlines to Watch:
- UCAS opens: May
- UCAT registration: May
- UCAT testing window: July to September
- Personal statement finalised: August–September
- UCAS submission deadline (for medicine): Mid-October
- Interview invitations: November onwards
👉Creating a shared calendar or checklist can help your child stay on track. Your involvement in planning and organisation can reduce anxiety and keep the process manageable.
Key Takeaways for Parents:
- The earlier your child begins preparing, the better—ideally from Year 11 or early Year 12
- Break tasks into manageable steps to avoid last-minute stress
- Offer to help with editing drafts and reviewing test schedules
- Encourage your child to take ownership of the process while knowing they have your full support
The application process is undoubtedly challenging, but with careful preparation and family support, it becomes far more navigable. By staying informed and offering gentle guidance, you’ll help your child submit a competitive application that reflects both their ability and character.
6. Preparing for the Medicine Interview
Receiving an interview invitation is a huge achievement—it means your child has successfully met academic and admissions criteria and now has the opportunity to demonstrate their suitability in person. Interviews are a vital stage of the selection process and can make or break an application.
Interview Formats:
Medical schools in the UK typically use one of the following formats:
- Multiple Mini Interviews (MMIs): These consist of a series of timed stations, each testing a specific skill, such as ethical reasoning, communication, empathy, or teamwork. Stations may include role-plays with actors, discussion tasks, or problem-solving scenarios. Each station is assessed independently, which in turn helps reduce bias.
- Panel Interviews: In this traditional format, candidates are interviewed by a panel of academic staff, clinicians, or admissions officers. Questions tend to focus on motivation for studying medicine, understanding of the profession, and reflections on relevant experiences.
What Interviewers Are Looking For:
Interviewers are not just assessing academic ability—they want to see evidence of personal qualities that make a good doctor. This includes:
- Communication and listening skills
- Ethical awareness
- Insight into the medical profession
- Teamwork and leadership potential
- Emotional intelligence
They may also ask situational or behavioural questions to assess how a candidate thinks on their feet. For example:
- “What would you do if you saw a colleague being dishonest?”
- “Describe a time you handled a conflict in a team.”
How Parents Can Help:
Your support and encouragement can significantly boost your child’s confidence during interview preparation. Here’s how you can help:
- Mock Interviews: Act as the interviewer using common questions and NHS hot topics. Encourage your child to answer out loud and time their responses.
- Stay Up to Date: Watch the news together and discuss key healthcare stories. Ask their opinion on current events like NHS funding, junior doctor strikes, or the use of AI in medicine.
- Debrief Practice Sessions: After mock interviews, talk through what went well and what could be improved. Focus on structure, clarity, and confidence.
- Encourage Opinion-Forming: Create space for open dialogue. Ask them to explain their view on ethical dilemmas and consider opposing viewpoints.
- Help with Organisation: Keep track of interview dates and ensure your child has the appropriate clothing, log-in details (for virtual interviews), or travel plans if in-person.
Typical Interview Questions:
- Why do you want to study medicine?
- What do you know about the NHS?
- Tell us about a time you worked as part of a team.
- What are the qualities of a good doctor?
- How would you handle breaking bad news?
Using Medset’s Medical School Interview Course:
Many students benefit from expert-led preparation. Medset’s Medical School Interview Course is one of the most comprehensive tools available. It includes:
- Over 60 video modules covering essential MMI and panel interview topics
- Common and curveball questions, with suggested model answers
- Practical frameworks for structuring responses (e.g., SPIES, ABC, STAR)
- In-depth NHS hot topics and ethical case discussions
Designed by doctors with real admissions experience, the course helps students prepare thoroughly, build confidence, and articulate their experiences with clarity and professionalism.
Final Tips for Parents:
- Remind your child that nerves are normal—it’s about preparation, not perfection
- Celebrate small wins, such as improving answers or mastering timing
- Help them keep perspective: interviews are conversations, not interrogations
With your support and structured resources like those from Medset, your child will be well-equipped to succeed in what is often the most intimidating part of the application process. The goal is not just to perform well but to feel confident and authentic while doing it.
7. If They Don’t Get an Offer: What Next?
Receiving rejections from all four medical school choices can be incredibly disappointing—not just for your child, but for the whole family. After months (or even years) of preparation, it’s natural to feel deflated. However, it’s important to remind your child that this isn’t the end of the road. Thousands of students reapply successfully each year, and many go on to have long, fulfilling careers in medicine.
As a parent, your support is crucial during this stage. Emotions may run high—especially if they were expecting to succeed—but your guidance can help them rebuild their confidence and plan a stronger second application.
Emotional Support First
Begin by reassuring them that a rejection doesn’t mean they aren’t good enough. Medicine is one of the most competitive courses in the UK, with application ratios often exceeding 10:1. Even strong candidates can miss out due to small margins.
Let your child process the disappointment and create a space where they feel comfortable expressing their frustration, confusion, or sadness. Once the initial emotions settle, you can shift focus toward constructive planning.
Understanding Why They Were Unsuccessful
Before jumping into reapplying, it’s helpful to assess what went wrong. Support your child in asking the following:
- Did I score too low on the UCAT?
Some universities publish UCAT cut-offs—compare their scores against those. - Was my personal statement clear, reflective, and compelling?
If it lacked insight or originality, that could be a factor. - Did I apply strategically to the right medical schools?
They may have selected universities with especially high competition or strict UCAT criteria. - How did the interview go?
If they were invited to interview but didn’t receive an offer, encourage them to reflect honestly on their preparation and performance.
Where possible, your child should request feedback from each university. While not all medical schools provide detailed responses, many offer general insights that can inform future improvements.
Reapplying Next Year
Many successful applicants are accepted on their second or even third attempt. If your child decides to reapply, the year ahead is a golden opportunity to build a stronger application. Here’s how:
- Improve the UCAT score:
Encourage structured preparation with more time and practice tests. Consider UCAT courses or tutoring if needed. - Gain more relevant work experience:
Look for both clinical (e.g., shadowing doctors) and non-clinical (e.g., volunteering in hospices) roles. Reflective learning is more valuable than prestige. - Rewrite the personal statement:
This should be updated to reflect new insights, experiences, and a stronger sense of self-awareness. A well-crafted second attempt can stand out. - Consider Medset’s Virtual Work Experience:
It provides practical insights and reflection prompts that enhance both interview preparation and personal statement content. Explore Medset’s Virtual Work Experience - Use the time for academic development:
If their predicted or achieved grades were a weakness, resitting A-levels or taking additional qualifications (e.g., EPQ) can demonstrate renewed commitment.
Alternative Options to Consider
If your child isn’t sure they want to reapply immediately—or at all—there are still meaningful routes that can keep their options open:
- Study a related subject:
Courses such as Biomedical Sciences, Physiology, or Pharmacology can lead to Graduate Entry Medicine in the future. - Study medicine abroad:
Some European universities offer medicine in English with more accessible entry routes. Be sure to check GMC recognition and regulatory implications for returning to the UK. - Consider allied health professions:
They might find a fulfilling role in nursing, paramedicine, physiotherapy, radiography, or physician associate programmes—all vital healthcare careers. - Look into Clearing or UCAS Extra:
Although rare, some places in medicine or related fields occasionally appear in these schemes.
Help Them Build a New Plan
Once they’ve chosen their next step, work together to build a timeline. Include UCAT dates, personal statement planning, application deadlines, and interview preparation.
A well-structured plan will:
- Give them a sense of control
- Turn rejection into growth
- Help avoid repeating the same mistakes
Every doctor has a story. For some, that story begins with a rejection—and a second chance that leads to even greater determination and success. As a parent, your encouragement can be the difference between your child giving up or regrouping with a clearer purpose. Stay calm, supportive, and positive. Help them reflect on the experience, embrace the opportunities in front of them, and remind them that many successful medical careers began with a setback — followed by an even stronger comeback.
8. How Medset Can Support You
Medset’s mission is to help aspiring doctors reach their goals with confidence. Their resources are designed by doctors and educators who know the admissions process inside out.
Medical School Interview Course
- 8 modules covering every key topic
- Ethics, NHS structure, common and curveball questions
- Answer frameworks to build strong responses
- Trusted by students nationwide
Virtual Work Experience
- Case-based learning approved by doctors
- Designed to mimic real NHS scenarios
- Reflection prompts included for personal statements
Whether your child is just starting their journey or preparing for interviews, Medset offers trusted, high-impact support.
9. Frequently Asked Questions
Q: How early should my child begin preparing for medicine?
A: Ideally from Year 11 or early Year 12, especially for UCAT and work experience.
Q: What’s a competitive UCAT score?
A: It varies annually, but scoring above 2600 is usually strong.
Q: Can virtual work experience replace in-person placements?
A: Yes. Medset’s online programme is designed to meet medical school standards and is widely accepted.
Q: My child is nervous about interviews—what should we do?
A: Practice is key. Medset’s Interview Course provides expert coaching and model answers.
Q: What if they don’t get any offers?
A: Many applicants reapply successfully. Use the year to gain more experience and improve weak areas.
10. Final Thoughts
Supporting your child on their path to medicine can feel overwhelming, but you’re not alone. With your encouragement and the right resources, they can navigate every challenge—from choosing a course to preparing for interviews.
Medset’s Medical School Interview Course and Virtual Work Experience are trusted by families across the UK. They’re designed to empower students with the knowledge, skills, and the confidence to succeed.
Your support matters. By helping your child stay motivated, organised, and prepared, you’ll be playing a vital role in shaping the doctor they aspire to become.
This comprehensive guide was created to support families on the journey to medicine. All Medset courses are quality-assured and created by doctors with admissions experience.